How does one succeed in life?
14.06.2025 23:42
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Ask yourself:
Why are men so attracted to big breasts?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
When writing a novel, how can a character be developed well, but QUICKLY?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
How can parents identify and address early signs of racial bias in young children?
Do not set goals—set systems.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
What I need from you?
Procrastinates a lot.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Why do many women wear sleeveless shirts, more so than men?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Do you want to have an XXX chat?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Dobbins: 'No-brainer' joining ascending Broncos - ESPN
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Does having the wrong address on my car insurance invalidate my policy?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
What bait should you use for ocean fishing?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Does not procrastinate.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
That's it for today.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
What is the difference between the terms "Millennials" and "kids"?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Making more friends is a goal.